A high-conflict co-parenting app for documenting alone
A high-conflict co-parenting app should help you keep a clean record and reply calmly, even when your ex won't cooperate. DivZen works for you alone: it drafts calm replies grounded in your agreement (5 credits), keeps a free incident log, tracks child expenses and, on paid plans, exports records with a SHA-256 fingerprint anyone can verify.
Published by DivZen · Updated October 7, 2026
Start free: 25 credits, no card
Reply without escalating
Paste the message you received, add any context, and DivZen suggests how to respond and drafts a reply (5 credits). The draft uses your agreement's actual terms, so it can point to what was agreed instead of arguing about it. Nothing is sent: you read it, change what you want and send it yourself, by text, email or whatever app you already use. Your drafts are saved.
Keep a record on your own
In a high-conflict separation, dates and details matter. The free incident log keeps timestamped entries with attachments. The custody calendar holds the schedule, one-off swaps and holiday rotations, and keeps the history when a schedule changes. On a paid plan, records export with a SHA-256 fingerprint anyone can verify.
When a shared app is the better choice
If a court order names a specific app, such as OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents or AppClose, use it for communication. Shared apps keep both parents' messages on a record neither can edit, which DivZen doesn't do. DivZen can still sit alongside one for your own notes, expenses and agreement questions.
If you feel unsafe
DivZen is a record-keeping tool, not a safety service. If you or your children are in danger, contact your local emergency number.
Questions
Does DivZen send messages to my ex?
No. It drafts replies for you to read, edit and send yourself. DivZen never contacts your co-parent.
Can my ex see my incident log or drafts?
No. Your co-parent has no access to your account unless you share your password.
Are the messages I paste in kept private?
Your data is encrypted with AES-256 and never sold. Before text goes to the AI model, names and personal details are replaced with placeholders and restored in the reply. Screenshots are images, so they're sent unaltered.
What does it cost?
The incident log and custody calendar are free. Message drafts use AI credits; the free plan comes with credits to start, and current plans and credit costs are at divzen.co/pricing.